The only thing I don't get is that one wire on the alarm is "- unlock, + lock" and the other wire is "+ unlock, - lock" ....
So let's say if I just run the blue wire to a relay, and the other end of the relay is connected to constant +12V... when I hit the button to unlock, the relay will function. What happens when I hit the button to lock and the alarm sends a + pulse to the relay?
Like... is this how you do it?